Learn How To Make Money From Home Using Your Smartphone In 2025
By using this site, you agree to the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.
Accept
AfricaNews360AfricaNews360
  • Politics
    PoliticsShow More
    The future is African – Ghana President declares at UN Assembly
    September 26, 2025
    Burkina Faso to ‘street honour’ late Ghanaian President Jerry John Rawlings
    May 19, 2025
    Burkina Faso honours late president Thomas Sankara with memorial park
    May 19, 2025
    Nigeria Presidency refutes Catholic leaders’ criticism of economic hardship
    March 11, 2025
    Ghana’s President Mahama strengthens ties with Mali during Bamako visit
    March 10, 2025
  • Business
    BusinessShow More
    Ghana’s President Mahama seeks investment partnerships during Singapore visit
    August 25, 2025
    Ghana’s Tourism Minister commends Emirates at grand opening of Travel Store
    May 15, 2025
    Burkina Faso strengthens Russian ties with new mining licence
    April 27, 2025
    Ghana Bauxite Company targets 6 million tonnes production by end of 2025
    April 7, 2025
    Ghana to launch ‘River Guards’ program to combat environmental Impact of illegal mining
    March 17, 2025
  • Showbiz
    ShowbizShow More
    Davido releases ’10 Kilo’ Music Video
    August 13, 2025
    Nigerian Star Davido’s Foundation supports 500 orphanages in annual Charity drive
    February 13, 2025
    Nigerian president Tinubu celebrates Nollywood icon Nkem Owoh ‘Osuofia’ at 70
    February 8, 2025
    Burkina Faso’s Bissa music sensation Eunice Goula drops new Banger ‘Mariage’
    September 25, 2024
    Kenya’s president hosts national music festival
    August 16, 2024
  • Sports
    SportsShow More
    Fifa sanctions SAFA with 3-0 defeat to Lesotho and £7,000 fine following Teboho Mokoena breach
    September 30, 2025
    Botswana declares public holiday after winning gold medal
    September 22, 2025
    Ghana smashes national record to reach 4x100m final at World Championships
    September 20, 2025
    Nigeria held to frustrating draw by South Africa in World Cup qualifier
    September 9, 2025
    Tunisia secure World Cup 2026 qualification with dramatic late winner
    September 9, 2025
  • Biographies
    BiographiesShow More
    Michael Gallup Bio, Age, Net Worth, Height, Parents, Siblings, Wife, Children
    July 25, 2024
  • Columns
    ColumnsShow More
    Ghana Government does not subsidize Hajj Pilgrims: Debunking the myth with facts
    March 7, 2025
    Full Speech: South African president’s address at first G20 Foreign Ministers’ meeting 2025
    February 22, 2025
    Ing. Abdullah Mohammed Billey: The Ghanaian road expert victimised for political reasons by the ousted Government
    February 3, 2025
    Ghana President Mahama’s speech at Africa Prosperity Dialogues 2025
    February 2, 2025
    An American opinion on the impending NDC Government structure
    December 17, 2024
  • Travel
    TravelShow More
    Ghana’s Tourism Minister commends Emirates at grand opening of Travel Store
    May 15, 2025
    Thousands of Ethiopian diaspora heed PM’s call to ‘come home’
    May 2, 2024
    Malawi and Ghana sign visa waiver agreement to enhance bilateral ties
    March 21, 2024
    Ghana signs visa waiver agreement with Bahamas
    February 22, 2024
    Malawi scrapes visa restrictions for 79 countries
    February 9, 2024
  • Editorial
    EditorialShow More
    FEATURE: Kigali City- A glittering jewel of Africa
    September 2, 2023
    All eyes on INEC as Nigeria decides
    February 26, 2023
    Feed Africa Summit: Continent Plans to Achieve Zero Hunger by 2030
    January 25, 2023
    Africa must speak with one voice at COP27
    November 8, 2022
    Nigerian headteacher sentenced to death after pupil’s murder
    July 28, 2022
  • World
    WorldShow More
    Robert Prevost
    American prelate Robert Prevost elected New Pope
    May 9, 2025
    Rwanda cuts diplomatic ties with Belgium amid Congo conflict tensions
    March 17, 2025
    ICC issues arrest warrants for Israel’s Benjamin Netanyahu, Ibrahim Al-Masri
    November 21, 2024
    Voting underway in US as Donald Trump faces Kamala Harris for presidency
    November 5, 2024
    Biden directs US forces to aid Israel’s defence against Iran
    October 2, 2024
Reading: My boyfriend wants financial support from my sugar daddy
Share
Notification Show More
Latest News
Fifa sanctions SAFA with 3-0 defeat to Lesotho and £7,000 fine following Teboho Mokoena breach
September 30, 2025
The future is African – Ghana President declares at UN Assembly
September 26, 2025
Botswana declares public holiday after winning gold medal
September 22, 2025
Ghana smashes national record to reach 4x100m final at World Championships
September 20, 2025
Ghana begins five-day Training of Trainers workshop to enhance Girls in ICT programme
September 19, 2025
Aa
AfricaNews360AfricaNews360
Aa
  • Technology
  • Science
  • Education
  • Health
Search
  • Topics
    • Business
    • Columns
    • Gossip
    • News
    • Politics
    • Showbiz
    • Fashion
    • Climate
    • World
    • Videos
Have an existing account? Sign In
Follow US
AfricaNews360 > Lifestyle > My boyfriend wants financial support from my sugar daddy
Lifestyle

My boyfriend wants financial support from my sugar daddy

Posted Africanews360 May 9, 2023 12 Min Read
Updated 2023/05/09 at 2:30 PM
SHARE

Before Lexis, there was Mr Banaman, a man who was over thirty years older than I am. I was dating Mr. Banaman but I was looking for someone I could call my own. Apart from his age, he also had a family; a wife and four children, so obviously he wasn’t mine. He had money and was ready to spread it on me so when he asked me to date him, I said yes, regardless of all the impediments I’ve mentioned. We dated for over a year with the understanding that when I meet someone, I would let him know.

I met Lexis through Mr Banaman. They worked together at some point but they were not friends. When Lexis found me with him, he thought I was Banaman’s daughter so he drew closer to Banaman so he could get to me. The first day he spoke to me he asked about the relationship between me and Banaman and I told him he was my uncle. Shocked, he asked, “Uncle? I thought you were his daughter.” I answered, “Technically, he’s my father because that’s the role he plays in my life.”

When I was telling Lexis this lie, I never thought we would amount to anything. I didn’t see love potential in his eyes and I never thought one day he could be the man I would date. I saw him as someone who knew Banaman and also knew me. He kept drawing nearer. He called at odd hours—hours only people with love in their hearts would call. When he called he spoke like someone who was interested in my story, someone who wanted a piece of my life like a kid wants a piece of cake. As time went on, I got his intentions so I started learning about him. By the time he proposed, I knew him too well.

I said yes but a day after saying yes, I realized I’d made a mistake. “How do I erase the concept he has about me and Banaman?” He knows Banaman as my uncle, a man who plays a fatherly role in my life. How do I get him to un-know that?”

Learn How To Make Money Online Using Your Smartphone In 2025

Whenever we discussed my family he would bring Banaman’s name. When I met him, the desire was to do away with Banaman and concentrate on him but each time I tried to forget, he brought Banaman into our conversations.

RECOMMENDED FOR YOU  5 harsh reasons you're the 'sucker' in your relationship

Banaman was also lurking in the shadows. I had told him about this new man I was seeing. Though I didn’t say a name, and he was aware that it brought closure to what we had, he wasn’t ready to let me go. “He’s just a boyfriend. Why let me go when you don’t even know how far you two would go? Boys may leave you one day but a man like me always stays.” I told him I couldn’t play that game very well because I was a one-man-at-a-time kind of woman. He didn’t get it, he pursued me relentlessly, asking me to stay with him.

One day he met Lexis in my absence. I don’t know the kind of conversation they had but after that meeting, Banaman got the understanding that I was dating Lexis. He asked me about it and I denied it at first. He knew too much and was sure I was lying so he pushed me to the wall until I accepted that it was Lexis I was dating.

“Does he know about us?” He asked me.

I nodded and said, “But in a different way. You’re my uncle, per what he knows.”

What I told him gave him the armour to stick around my life. If my boyfriend knows him to be my uncle, then he can pretend to be playing that role and stick around for as long as he wants. I didn’t want that. I felt he was blackmailing me. I begged him to stay away. He even asked for a closure sex and I gave it to him. After, he looked me in the face and said, “No, it can’t end this way. I can’t lose you to that boy. He’ll leave you someday I know, but I should be the one you come back to.”

Seeing where the issue was going, I decided to tell Lexis the truth so the two of us will see how to manage it. I thought he loved me enough to withstand the shock of the news so I ran to him and told him everything. He laughed that kind of laughter people in pain laugh. He asked, “You’re dating your uncle?”  “No, he’s not my uncle. He’s not a family. I lied. Forgive me.”

RECOMMENDED FOR YOU  It Looks Like He Came Into The Relationship To Use Me As A Bank

He didn’t forgive. We had dated for over a year. “The truth came a year too late, I can’t forgive you.” He walked away and left me stranded in my own truth, while the lie I told a year ago was staring at my face. I cried a little. He was the best man to happen to me after so many years and it felt like we were going somewhere. I cried for the loss and also cried for the future we couldn’t have.

Banaman came around trying to feel right about what he said about boys always leaving. The little courage in me turned into anger and I used that anger to blast him. Like the snake, I was ready to lose my old skin so I could begin again. Starting afresh is always hard but what it brings is always beautiful. I spoke to him harshly and even asked if he would be happy if a man did to his wife what he was doing to me. I was straightforward with him. I told him to leave my life alone and if he wanted to take whatever he bought me, I would give them all back to him.

He left, feeling embarrassed. I stayed, feeling a little bit of regret about the way I spoke to him but it ended, that was the good thing.

A month later, Lexis came back apologizing for leaving me the way he did. I loved him so I took him back knowing that Banaman was off the picture. Everything was fine, we were happy enjoying the little things we had until one day he told me, “We need Banaman.” I asked, “For what? I threw him out of my life the very day you left me. Why should we need him again?”

“There’s this business idea I have. It’s huge. We’ll be successful but we need his money for the start of the business.”

I looked at him and he looked back at me. “Business idea? And you think the best way is to raise money from a man who was the reason you left me the first time?”

I thought it was a test so I said no. I told him nothing would send me back to that man. I even made him a promise that I would support his business idea with all my savings if that’s what it will take. He insisted on bringing the man back into the picture so I asked, “As what?” He said, just pretend that you two are back together and start taking from him.” I asked, “If he wants sex, I can give it to him?” He answered, “You’re not a child, you should know how to navigate through these lines.”

RECOMMENDED FOR YOU  South Africa: ANC Speaker in Free State rocked by sex tape scandal

I still took it as a test until one evening after sex he looked me deep in the eyes and said, “If you love me as much as you proclaim, you’ll do what I told you, just for the betterment of our future.” The response that came to my head I couldn’t say it with my mouth but I knew it was over. The way he put it made me realise he really meant what he said. I didn’t say a word. When he left I sent him a message, “If you love me as much as you proclaim, you’ll not use me as a pawn for your dreams. It’s over. Obviously, you came back with a plan and I was too stupid not to have seen it.”

He called to tell me I was making a mountain out of a molehill. In his defence, he repeated his request and said it was the best for both of us. Days later when he realized I was serious about leaving him, he came telling me it was all a joke. I told him, “Then I’m sorry. I took it seriously. In your next relationship, don’t joke with such issues, you’re not a comedian.”

He’s still pursuing me. He’s still selling his dreams of a better future to me. He said, “Don’t worry, we can work with what we have. With your savings and mine, we can still make it work.”

I shook my head and told him, “Whoever sold me as a fool to you made a mistake. Go for your refund.”

I’m happy he gave me the courage to run away from Banaman. Maybe, that’s the role the universe brought him to play in my life. I’m glad I met him. I’m happy about what he made me do but there’s no space in my life for a guy like him.

— B.B

RSS EDITORS’ SUGGESTIONS

  • VIDEO: Ghanaian winger Emmanuel Addai scores in Qarabağ Champions League 2-0 win over Copenhagen
  • Sports Minister Kofi Adams urges Black Stars to seal World Cup spot with victory over Comoros
  • “The target is to qualify for the World Cup” – Black Starlets coach Narteh Ogum after AFCON qualification
  • “It will be a different Ghana” – Prosper Ogum ahead of WAFU B U-17 final against Cote d’Ivoire
  • GFA appoints Nurudeen Ahmed as head coach of U-19 Boys national team
TAGGED: boyfriend, financial support, Love Issues, Relationship, sugar daddy
VIA: Silentbeads
Africanews360 May 9, 2023
Share this Article
Facebook Twitter Whatsapp Whatsapp LinkedIn Telegram Email Print
Previous Article How Tanzania is cashing out from Russian/Ukraine war
Next Article Uganda Govt pledges to utilise oil money well 
Leave a comment Leave a comment

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

Latest on AfricaNews360

  • Fifa sanctions SAFA with 3-0 defeat to Lesotho and £7,000 fine following Teboho Mokoena breach
  • The future is African – Ghana President declares at UN Assembly
  • Botswana declares public holiday after winning gold medal
  • Ghana smashes national record to reach 4x100m final at World Championships
  • Ghana begins five-day Training of Trainers workshop to enhance Girls in ICT programme

More recommendations for you

  • VIDEO: Ghanaian winger Emmanuel Addai scores in Qarabağ Champions League 2-0 win over Copenhagen
  • Sports Minister Kofi Adams urges Black Stars to seal World Cup spot with victory over Comoros
  • “The target is to qualify for the World Cup” – Black Starlets coach Narteh Ogum after AFCON qualification
  • “It will be a different Ghana” – Prosper Ogum ahead of WAFU B U-17 final against Cote d’Ivoire
  • GFA appoints Nurudeen Ahmed as head coach of U-19 Boys national team

You Might Also Like

LifestyleNews

Ghana’s Tourism, Culture and Creative Arts minister urges confectioners to promote healthier eating

May 14, 2025
Lifestyle

How my dying wife found me a girlfriend

August 3, 2024
AthleticsLifestyleTop Stories

Rogail Joseph: South Africa’s Golden Girl savors Accra Nightlife

March 23, 2024
Lifestyle

Check out top 10 most followed persons on TikTok in 2024

March 13, 2024
  • Bereavement
  • Debt Management
  • Finance
  • Job Creation
  • Small Business
  • Climate
  • Education
  • Fashion
  • Health
  • Rights
  • Science
  • Sanitation
  • Mobilisation
  • Secondary Education
  • Celebrity News
  • Tertiary Education
  • Culture
  • Security
  • Corruption
  • Creed
  • Athletics
  • Basketball
  • Boxing
  • Formula 1
  • Rugby
  • Soccer
  • Tennis
  • Minning
  • Gaming
  • Technology
AfricaNews360AfricaNews360
Follow US

© 2024 - AfricaNews360 | All rights reserved.

  • About
  • Advertise with us
  • Contact

Removed from reading list

Undo
Welcome Back!

Sign in to your account

Register Lost your password?